Call Me: Series on Dating and Discernment of Marriage

Talk 1: Dating with Marriage in Mind

Summary

  • This talk reframes modern dating through a Catholic lens, acknowledging both the real complexities of today’s culture and the deeper clarity of God’s design.

  • Participants will explore three essential vocations—holiness, mission, and state in life—and how their proper order brings freedom and focus to dating.

  • Through four practical dynamics, this session offers a grounded, actionable vision for building relationships rooted in faith, intentionality, and trust in God.

Desired Outcome

Talk 2: It’s Not You, It’s Me Actually: For Men

  • This talk challenges men to take ownership of their readiness for marriage by focusing on who they are becoming before they ever say “I do.”

  • Drawing from the example of St. Joseph, participants will explore three essential areas of readiness—personal, spiritual, and financial—and how each one shapes their future as a husband and father.

  • With practical guidance and honest self-assessment, this session calls men to grow in virtue, deepen their relationship with God, and live with responsibility and intentionality now.

(Note: This talk could be modified for a mixed audience of men and women.)

Talk 3: Three Big Questions Every Couple Needs to Ask Before Engagement

  • Rooted in the example of Adam and Eve and the Church’s marriage rite, this talk walks couples through three essential questions that reveal readiness for engagement: freedom, faithfulness, and fruitfulness.

  • Audience will learn how these pillars move beyond feelings or compatibility and into the deeper reality of sacrificial, lifelong love.

  • With practical insight and honest reflection, this session equips couples to discern not just if they love each other—but if they are prepared to live marriage as God designed it.